A Memecoin About Attention
Reflections on why men can't find a clit.
Most men don't "look" for it, they run a script. The script is built from guessing, rushing, and overconfidence, so it ignores feedback. When it fails, they repeat it harder instead of switching to the only reliable method: asking, listening, adjusting. The clit isn't hidden. Attention is.
If sex is treated like a fixed sequence, the brain stops observing. A script is fast, but blind. When she reacts, the script doesn't update. It just pushes forward. That's how "can't find it" happens not because it's complicated, but because the process refuses to adapt.
TL;DR — Stop running scripts.
Confidence feels like knowing, so questions feel unnecessary. But without questions, there's no calibration. Three wrong moves become "proof it's mysterious" instead of proof you didn't verify. Curiosity is the difference between guessing and finding.
TL;DR — Verify, don't assume.
Rushing turns touch into noise. If the goal is to "finish", anything that needs attention feels like a delay, so it gets skipped. And the clit is exactly where skipping is punished. Slowing down isn't romantic advice. It's the mechanic.
TL;DR — Attention beats urgency.